THE PRESSURE TO "PERFORM"

"Where relationships should go" Simply Said

***This blog entry is not be read by children and is intended for a mature audience & viewers****  Simply Said

Do you suffer from mental pressure?  Do you allow whatever is happening on the job and other outside influences and situations disturb your happy moments with your loved one?  If so when you're ready to deal with that problem, read on to help give you clarity on that type of pressure.

First things first, you have to know your partner.  Your will to please comes naturally, if you're not a selfish person; you will love completely with out holding back.  Those who can love with everything and mentally focus on pleasing their partner will have a more rewarding love life.

If your disposition is angry and hateful, your love making actually transmits that same message.  The saying "angry sex is the best sex" - well that's truly a matter of opinion.  Angry sex is abusive sex because you intend to be with your loved one yet you are angry?  Your body is transmitting mixed messages and if you are on the receiving end you are getting angry love which brings about confusion in a relationship.  Both of you can't make simple decisions & fly off the handle for the silliest things and it just opens up a Pandora's box of mixed emotions.  You are what you create in your relationship.  

The key is to know what your partner likes.  Not to love one sided, and before going there look at each other, understand what your partner is saying to you without even speaking.  Be on the same level; that way when you begin the process it's smooth and your position transitions are that more exciting.  In the end a moment of gratification & completion veils over both of you.

Mental capacity while "performing" is an integral part of your performance.  For men too much excitement can equal a serious flop and a two or three minute endurance level.  For women depending on where your head is that day, your partner might not tell you because he just wanted it and needed to release but if you loved him lazily then what do you expect to get out of him?  Yet both of you wonder in your own way what happen to us, while in fact what is happening to your relationship is a result of both of your actions.

Love should be a satisfying experience for both parties.  Aim to please every time and love with your all.  When you do the "pressure to perform"  will not be there.  What pressure?  Just pleasure!  Love & Love Responsibly!

Till my next entry...

TOP 3 REASONS WHY I RESPECT JAY Z & TYRA BANKS

FELLOW DECEMBER BABY JAY Z 12/4

All righty then - here are my top 3 reasons why I respect Jay Z and Tyra Banks:

1.  They are both born in December :)

2.  They are both very intelligent people.  For example, while at peak points in their careers they looked at other avenues to move their money and do other things, branch out into other territories.  So yeah, they have great business sense.

3.  They genuinely like helping out the next person, in some shape or form.

***Bonus - did I say they were born in December? (a jokey joke)

There you have it my top 3 reasons - do you have a top 3?  Inbox me or leave your comment below - till my next entry...  & Happy birthday to Jay Z, Tyra Banks & everyone else born on December 4th - best wishes from all of us at Simply Said Media!

THE CELEBRATION, MICHAEL JACKSON & THE ARTS

"The Celebration" @ Magnet, Elmont, NY 12/1/12

Hey everyone right now I'm listening to Michael Jackson sing "I just can't stop loving you"  the movie This is It is playing on VH1 and I'm at the radio station making this entry.  While President Obama is in office I am going to start my MJ National Holiday initiative (grassroots @ first get as many signatures as possible & speak to all of those representatives that we elected in office) to institute "World Performing Arts Day" in memory of the greatest entertainer that ever lived.  With proper funding this holiday can bring back music programs in schools who have already lost it, as well as keep music programs in schools who are in danger of loosing music programs.

If the political analysts feel away about giving another Black man a holiday on the calendar - "World Performing Arts Day" will work for me, after all Michael Jackson was a worldwide entertainer.  I will tell you more about this initiative during another entry.  If you are ready to sign letters in support of this just shoot me an email at iriepeggy@gmail.com or plaibhen@gmail.com

Back to the "Celebration" I did say I would post pictures as I received them.  My cousin Sam was the photographer for the night and he emailed me shots from the celebration.  To see more pics you would have to go to my Facebook page to find the album.  My hair, make-up & stylist was provided by the company "Flawless Beauty."  To have Flawless Beauty handle your event, feel free to contact me or friend the company on Facebook.

Since the movie "This is It" is airing right now I can't help myself to go back on the topic of MJ & a holiday recognizing the importance of music & the performing arts.  Music is an integral form of expression; believe it or not but music helps shape and form your actions, ways of thinking and behavior.  The message is in the music, its beats and all its tempos.  I did not have to be a music major or study music in anyway to know this.  It's just the truth.

An individual should get their roses and awards or recognition while still alive.  If they happen to pass before you acknowledge them, find ways to keep that person in your memory.  You could honor their memory with memorial services and the like but by designating a day to honor all extraordinary artists sounds good to me.  What do you think?  Feel free to inbox me or leave a comment below.

Till my next entry...

12/3 MADE JUST FOR ME!

Birthday Cake for the "Celebration" @ Magnet in Elmont, NY

Well thirty plus years ago I was conceived.  God said "she will arrive a few minutes after 8am on December 3rd."  He said "she will be the last of her children, she will be different, she will be multi-talented, she will be strong, she will face many adversities but will triumph over them all, she trusts in me so I will guide her through."

I heard the stories that as a newborn when I came home from Kings County Hospital I was very red in complexion looked like an Indian with a whole lot of hair.  In my toddler years I was chubby, then that all changed once I became more acquainted with the elements of the outdoors and started kindergarten.  I developed asthma, back in those days  Environmentalist really didn't go hard on the emissions of the yellow school bus.  Still living in the city today,  I am grateful for the changes that have been made in regards to our environment and unlawful emissions.  Every bit helps in reducing our carbon footprint; ozone layer madness & just cleaner air in general.

Now back to those early years.  Growing up with Asthma, I've had some really close calls gave me a new appreciation for life and how precious it is.  I also had some horrible accidents where the doctor would say the same thing "If you hadn't brought her here sooner she would have died, she lost so much blood."  Hey guys I'm still standing - it's all good!

I look at birthdays as another opportunity for self-reflection & pampering.  A birthday is special for you & your parents for they brought you into this world. Birthdays are another opportunity to celebrate the gift of life.  I can breathe, my heart is still pumping blood to every part of my body and it's my day where  I should choose to be happier, healthier & smarter.  We should always look for areas of improvement in our lives and work on them.

I will be getting dressed going to work and made plans to have dinner at my favorite restaurant with my son and close loved ones, a more private way to celebrate my special day.

Then it's back on my grind because I have a whole lot of events to promote, plan and bring into fruition.  Not to mention my back log of recordings to do.  

Yes Simply Said Media is a unique firm that specializes in Broadcast Production, Administration, Voice over production & Programming - I'm open for business email me at plaibhen@gmail.com or iriepeggy@gmail.com

My party - you should have been there - it was great - I had a blast!  Pics to follow during the next few entries okay :)  

THINGS TO LISTEN 2:  I'm now co-hosting on Red Hot Radio every Wednesday from 7pm-9pm with Bobby Channel 1!  It's Culture Jam on Red Hot Radio in Brooklyn visit www.redhotradio1.net  or if you are in the Brooklyn area tune into 102.3FM

My next entry will be soon, Black History Month is coming up I like to start early with Black History facts & spotlights, so be on the look out for them.

BUT 2DAY - I'M BASKING IN THE GLOW OF LOVE FOR LIFE & ALL IT'S BLESSINGS!  12/3 MADE JUST FOR ME!

!PEACE!

SOULMATE RAP UP @ THE LUXURIOUS RESORTS WORLD CASINO

Saturday, November 24th 2K12 for "Soulmate" @ the Resorts World Casino in Jamaica, Queens.

Well what can I tell you about "Soulmate"  this party was planned for the lovers.  You could have come with out your boo.  You could have came with your boo, either way this party was designed for you to dance the night away at the very top floor of the Luxurious World Casino  located at 110-00 Rockaway Blvd.  in Jamaica, Queens.

 

My duty on Saturday was to handle Will Call, if you won on Irie Jam Radio or were on the guest list, you saw me.  Watching all the patrons come in was beyond interesting.  You guys really came out in droves and in every age group.

 

The fashions - wow, the fashions, I really should have taken the picture of the gentlemen who came with his wife.  You can tell that he was up there in age with his "Sunday's Best" his suit said "Easter white" and his hat was a "NY" baseball cap.  Some of the most outstanding alfits and colors appeared to be metallic silver.  Not because that's what I wore, but because so many women had flashing silver that lit up the room.  Everyone dressed to impress not you - but themselves! 

 

It was indeed an evening of sophistication, elegance & class.  Your music maestros, well DJ Roy started the party out with beautiful R&B instrumentals, his set was enjoyable for all the early arrivers, DJ Roy entertained the crowd until a little after midnight where he gave the controls to his partner in crime Dubbmaster Chris.  During Dubbmaster's set I heard music that I haven't heard in years, not to mention a few that I would have to ask "who is that?"

 

I saw DJ's that I haven't seen in such a longtime.  It was great to see Steelie Bashment that was an extra added surprise and his set was a good one of 90's 80's  & today.  Super Claude, Senior Daley all had their sets of soul tunes and gave their ecclectic mixes - no one really wanted to leave when the lights came up a little after 3am.  To segway into our next event, I can remember the night ending with songs from Mad Cobra, being that on November 30th he will be live in concert at Mingles in the Bronx.

 

To win tickets for that event you're gonna have to tune into Irie Jam Radio WVIP 93.5FM every morning @ 10AM with DJ Roy and in the evenings with Dubbmaster Chris.  To find your nearest ticket outlet call 718.723.IRIE (4743).  You can always listen to Irie Jam Radio 24/7 on your phone dial 832.225.5365 & there is an Irie Jam Radio App as well.

 

The next big event is my birthday party on Saturday, December 1st at Magnet Sports & Entertainment Lounge in Elmont, NY.  My Proud Sponsors:  Irie Jam Radio & www.ob1limo.com  contact them today - they're competitive and so cool!  Call 917.560.1741 ask for Orville, tell them I sent you & get "hooked up"

 

Till my next entry guys :)

 

OUR HOLIDAY WEEKEND

IRIE JAM RADIO - WVIP 93.5FM PROVIDING THE BEST IN CARIBBEAN PROGRAMMING & ENTERTAINMENT!

Hey - did you enjoy gobble gobble day!  I sure did it was well spent with family.  Now the weekend is far from over, what are your plans?  Feel free to comment below if you like.  I will be at the Resort World Casino - way up top at the Penthouse.  Personally, I'm not a gambler & way up top there are no slot machines you would have to go down a floor or two if you feel to try your luck and spend some money.

Now let's talk about the ambiance of the Resort's Penthouse - you want elegance? check, ample space to be comfortable with your boo? check, super sheek & huge restrooms with smiling attendants to assist you if needed?  Check.  The best music anyone could ever ask for? CHECK CHECK CHECK CHECK & MIC CHECK AGAIN!  You will be entertained musically by DJ Roy, Dubbmaster Chris, Senoir Daley & Super Claude.  Saturday - November 24th is guaranteed to be a night to remember.  There's no telling what celebrities will be in attendance for "Soulmate"

It's great to be able to have a positive attitude & treat yourself to a soulful evening of holiday celebration.  You get dressed, get cute and allow the best to follow.  We have so much to be thankful for, take the opportunity to reach out to friends and family get together and have fun.  I promise you, you'll thank me for the suggestion.  Find a Soulmate, be a Soulmate, bring your Soulmate!

Then you can plan to have a blast with me on Saturday, Dec. 1st as I celebrate my birthday at Magnet Sports & Entertainment Lounge - 241-05 Linden Blvd.  in Elmont, Long Island.  You can get on my guest list by clicking "yes" on my facebook page, emailing me at iriepeggy@gmail.com or plaibhen@gmail.com

Also - are we still overjoyed with the electoral count?  I sure am!  Simply Said Media - Irie Jam Media are in total celebratory mode!!! It's the holidays - give and you will surely receive.  See you tomorrow night!

(pics & post Soulmate report will be provided soon :)


  

EVENTS!! CELEBRATIONS!! BDAY BASHMENTS & THE HOLIDAYS!!!

So sorry everyone - it has been a very long time since I've made an entry.  We won't get into the malfunctioning lap top.  Thank goodness for studios & stations and equipment on the late night tip.  So number 1.  whatever your political association is PLEASE GO AND VOTE!  I know for some of us it will be difficult with so much devastation around us as a result of Hurricane Sandy.  All the more reason for us to rally together as a community and help our neighbors who are displaced and need to get to polling locations.  I pray that the communities hit the hardest have all the information readily available to them & that volunteers are their to assist them in their time of need.  So that questions can be answered and assistance can be given to them if needed.  I don't want to relive another "hanging chads" election debacle.

My birthday is coming up!!! & you are invited to celebrate with me - join me at Magnet Sports & Entertainment Center - 241-05 Linden Blvd., Elmont, NY 11003.  It's a night time thing - I will make my grand entrance @ about mid-night -so please come early for the early juggling.  The music will be provided by Dubb Master Chris of WVIP 93.5FM - Irie Jam Radio, DJ Genius of X-Media Sound & other surprise celebrity DJ's passing through.  It all goes down on Saturday, December 1, 2K12.  I hope to see you there!  To get on my guestlist, you have a host of choices:

1.  Become a member on my blog to get the latest updates

2.  Follow me on twitter under Simply Said Media

3.  Friend request me on facebook under Simply Said or by my name Peggy Laibhen

4.  Email me at plaibhen@gmail.com or iriepeggy@gmail.com 

Events that are coming up by Simply Said Media:  My Networking Business Brunch!  Venue to be announced.  Due to Hurricane Sandy I am allowing our communities to recover from the aftermath - so the date and venue will be forthcoming.  In the meantime get your business cards, brochures & a list of your company's weak areas.  You will be introduced to Simply Said Media and it's affiliates, but more importantly it's a gathering of the business minds.  Be introduced to innovative ways in moving forward during these economic times.  Two keynote speakers will be there to talk to you briefly.  Look forward to the exchange of cards & smiles.

Lovefest 2012 - the Ultimate Classic R&B & Soul mixtape CD featuring Simply Said Poetry by Slim Perfection is available for you to download visit: http://www.sendspace.com/file/me00ke  if you run into any difficulties downloading - feel free to contact me.   

Lovefest 2013 is slated to be released during Valentine's Holiday weekend - look out for the release party & the best mix of music produced by Dubb Master Chris & myself - not to mention the sweetest & steamiest poetry around.

As I finish up this entry, I'm at the headquarters of Irie Jam Radio 93.5FM we're watching the Presidential Election we're having our own Election Party!  Tomorrow the electoral college would be 1. putting back our President to serve 4 more years or electing romping Romney to turn back the clock of steady advancement our President has already put in place.

Thank you for all your support - look out for the fashion shows, events & great advice coming your way via this blog.  Talk to ya soon :)