THE PRESSURE TO "PERFORM"

"Where relationships should go" Simply Said

***This blog entry is not be read by children and is intended for a mature audience & viewers****  Simply Said

Do you suffer from mental pressure?  Do you allow whatever is happening on the job and other outside influences and situations disturb your happy moments with your loved one?  If so when you're ready to deal with that problem, read on to help give you clarity on that type of pressure.

First things first, you have to know your partner.  Your will to please comes naturally, if you're not a selfish person; you will love completely with out holding back.  Those who can love with everything and mentally focus on pleasing their partner will have a more rewarding love life.

If your disposition is angry and hateful, your love making actually transmits that same message.  The saying "angry sex is the best sex" - well that's truly a matter of opinion.  Angry sex is abusive sex because you intend to be with your loved one yet you are angry?  Your body is transmitting mixed messages and if you are on the receiving end you are getting angry love which brings about confusion in a relationship.  Both of you can't make simple decisions & fly off the handle for the silliest things and it just opens up a Pandora's box of mixed emotions.  You are what you create in your relationship.  

The key is to know what your partner likes.  Not to love one sided, and before going there look at each other, understand what your partner is saying to you without even speaking.  Be on the same level; that way when you begin the process it's smooth and your position transitions are that more exciting.  In the end a moment of gratification & completion veils over both of you.

Mental capacity while "performing" is an integral part of your performance.  For men too much excitement can equal a serious flop and a two or three minute endurance level.  For women depending on where your head is that day, your partner might not tell you because he just wanted it and needed to release but if you loved him lazily then what do you expect to get out of him?  Yet both of you wonder in your own way what happen to us, while in fact what is happening to your relationship is a result of both of your actions.

Love should be a satisfying experience for both parties.  Aim to please every time and love with your all.  When you do the "pressure to perform"  will not be there.  What pressure?  Just pleasure!  Love & Love Responsibly!

Till my next entry...